How high can we get in our dreams?

There I was again in the old house I grew up in. Something was different this time… I felt oddly awake. I was in my old living room.  I noticed an old friend sitting next to me and of course my sister across the way was conversing with someone I didn’t recognize. Than it happened […]

Soulmates? What are they exactly?

I just want to talk a bit about soul mates and what they are in this lifetime. I think we all go through relationships and are looking for a person to be there always in our lives and after death as well.. Well look no further that person or persons are usually right under your nose.  I think we all had visions and ideas of a perfect person just the same as we really want them to be, but in reality it doesn’t work that way, at least so” they” say.

What is a soul mate? Well no one really knows exactly so we just take the dictionary form and use that since it suits best here.

“A person ideally suited to another as a close friend or romantic partner”.  But does this seem correct? I think it does and it doesn’t.

Since no one really knows exactly what a soul mate is , how bout we start off with some simple observations or questions rather.

First off lets start with the obvious who has been there all your life and will always be there for you no matter what hardship you are facing? Your parents right? Well yes they are some, but what if your parents aren’t so much there for you? Well I think they are still “soul mates” because you both are learning from the situation, whether you chose to do something else from that experience is up to you. But initially it all comes down to who we are and our own personal evolution and choices.

I think from my observations and experience in life, we have many soul mates..in fact as many as we wish or need. I’d like to bring up something funny that my twin sister still makes fun of me about.
Over the years I had a few relationships and also had said my partners were my soulmates. Since I’ve grown older I realize not all of them were soulmates, maybe a couple. Haha.

Basically I believe those that are/ have major roles in our lives have the possibility to be a soulmate because like I said, both are learning from each other and not in a short term basis or a temporary way.

These people usually are born into our lives or we are born into theirs. What I mean by this is that most of the time I have found our own siblings to be “a”soulmate. I think its interesting to note that my twin sister has been a challenge as well as a prize through out my life. Also she is in most if not 99.9% of my dreams. I truly believe she is a soulmate of mine.

But let’s get back to what they really are. At a point in my life I thought everyone that entered my life were soulmates. Obviously this isn’t reasonable or rational, but is it? I mean its safe to say everyone that entered my life worthy of any kind of value as a person always has something to show or teach me as well as I  was for them. This is the true soul mate rather than some person you meet on the street that in only in your life a mere year or two.., Don’t get me wrong these people have their place in our lives as well but not as soul mates sorry.

So, lets go back to where we started with the original question. What is a soul mate?  Well I think we all need to find that out for our selves and our own unique journeys in this lifetime. I’m just giving my personal perspective here that basically they are the people who dive into your life with you and learn as you do, almost on the same level, this is why  some people seem to be only  are apart of our lives but always come back. I think its because their mission is not finished without us. I say mission because we all are on many here but some are more easily done in groups. This brings me to my point of it all, and takes this to the next thought in mind.

I know it may not be easy to grasp an after life let alone this life. I understand how people get lost easily because there is no real proof of one or the other here.  But what one considers truth and validation  is very loosely given and received as “proof”.

I’m just gonna give ya my logic of it all and hopefully it makes sense to ya’ll. but if not its cool too.

What I have gathered over the years is that soul mates are in fact the very people who surround you the first time you got to see this life and than some. They are the people who see you as you are as they did as day 1 and can help you  on your journey,  not all of us get so lucky though because most of our soul mates struggle on their own paths. However if you were meant to help them than you were, but remember you can’t save NO ONE, this life is still your own personal journey here and  those that you love or they love you is a bonus here.

A soul mate will be with you in this life till the next, no exceptions , no questions. They are the ones you will least expect to be a soul mate.

 

Why do we live in a world of hate?

1424036032520I think this is a very good question for today and yesterday as well as tomorrow. But I think the answer is nor hear nor there because it is something we have included in our own evolutionary tactics. It’s like the light  without the darkness, we will always stumble on such ways to remove this impossible pose from the intense spectrum of life but will never be able to because it is after all a part of the whole spectrum.

The reason I am writing about this is because I came across this question in one of my google + groups I found interesting and I think it’s a unique question to ask everyone as well. I would like to conclude my responses from the group below,

“I read a book years ago, the author basically described that technology would collapse the human race and upon us as well, eventually we will not be able to keep up and will be forced to revert back, unpiecing the very machine we created in order to get to the core again. It’s a very interesting ritual humans have always done over time. I think it’s a necessary process because without developing this we would have nothing to evolve to”.

“I think its a very accepting or a non accepting time but it has always been this way. On a personal number I hate to say this but its true that you have to cut ties with those that are blindly driven by toxicity and do more harm than good here, even if its a close family member. Its really hard but gotta do it sometimes, very sad too.. I know from experience. I just wish it didn’t have to be that way, its very heartbreaking to have to do.But it always goes back to my lil saying ” life is the journey to oneself”.
Its hard to trust these days and I don’t have any children but I feel for all that do. I can’t imagine trying to raise someone today or even in the 40’s really. Things are the same but with a complicated twist. Technology just makes it easier for us to express ourselves whether good or bad…so it seems there is more hate today but realistically it’s just a matter of being able to express through multiple outlets creating a seemingly more hate revenue”.

Any opinions comments please feel free to leave them as well as share and get others insights into this subject, Thanks.

What would you like to see more of here?

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Hello Everyone, First off I’d like to thank everyone who has taken the time to read some of my posts and like and comment on them. I really enjoy the topics I am writing about and love to see how others perceive and think of these subjects. I am also very grateful to have such creative and inspiring folks following my blog, it truly means much to me and I love going to read what you all are up to as well. 🙂

I have been taking Blogging courses with wordpress that I find have been just very enriching and has let me get to go out and meet and greet other fantastic bloggers as well. However lately I have been a bit torn on some things I am writing about and would love your feedback even if its critical, I can take it in a productive and non offensive way, so don’t be shy!

Basically I would like more info into what you would like to see more of on my blog. I am currently writing of the tarot cards in order for others to see my view on them and I think this is crucial because its how I want to really establish myself as a tarot reader as well as grow my business. I am also working on a book as I write this to you, which I feel is also very crucial in establishing myself and getting my ideas out there as far as dreams, lucid dreaming, astral projection and the subconscious mind goes.  I feel they it also  compliments  each other because I am offering something different to my readings than just the tarot. However I would like to add something more to the blog and this is hopefully where you guys come in…Please vote guy’s this will surely help me figure out the topics I should be focusing on and help pave the path to better reading for you too! Thanks everyone! Also please feel free to let me know any thoughts/ideas/insights you may have for my blog, I will take all into consideration. Many thanks!

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